Know-It-Alls in the workplace

He's been everywhere, knows everything and you have to work with him. He can be your employee, colleague or boss. These people mostly suffer from uncertainty, but can also behave as a know-it-all because he's achieved successes in the past by following procedures that he considers to be the only right ones. In short, he feels he has to tell others what to do and how to do it down to the smallest detail. How can you handle cooperation with someone like this?

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Your approach to the know-it-all in your office depends on your position relative to the person. An interesting article on this topic was published at the Harvard Business Review website.

If the know-it-all is your employee, then you have to provide feedback so the person understands clearly why he has to change his attitude.

If the know-it-all is your colleague, start from your mutual relationship. If you're friends, you can talk openly. However, if you don't know each other very well or if you don't have a good relationship, be careful not to act like a know-it-all yourself. Try to build a closer relationship before you have a talk with him.

If the know-it-all is your manager, the greatest caution is needed. Don't make an issue of it when he behaves as if he's been everywhere and knows everything, if it's not important. In other cases, when it is important to persuade the boss to change his attitude, try the following steps.

1. Ask the right question

Ask your boss if he's ever experienced a similar situation and how he solved it. It's also good to use the "what if" question.

2. Gain more time

Tell your boss that it sounds like a good idea. At the same time, however, ask him whether you could collect more information and opinions by e.g. the end of the week.

3. Point out the risks

If you can see real risks, name them. Say that you want to be sure there are no problems and ask, for example, for a consultation with other employees who are involved in the situation.

If you manage to persuade your boss to change his mind or to consider other options, don't boast about how great you are. First of all, thank your boss.

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Article source Harvard Business Review - flagship magazine of Harvard Business School
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