Negative people are everywhere. Often we can avoid them, but sometimes it's not possible, e.g. at work. Then we have to face their negative energy and pessimism, which can drain our own energy. How can you deal with them more effectively?
If you are surrounded by negative energy or chronic complainers, start by setting your boundaries. Try to limit the time you have to spend with them as much as possible. Keep in mind that you can't change their behavior, but you can decide how you will behave. Other practical tips on how to deal with negative people were published on Entrepreneur.com.
Do not ignore negative people on your team
Even a single negative worker can break the entire team or company. If a negative person is on your team, try to deal with the situation. Tell the person openly that he or she must change their attitude.
Learn to manage your emotions
There is no need to engage in disputes whenever someone makes you upset by negative comments. Learn to control the emotions that can lead to unnecessary conflicts.
Do not waste your energy
Negative people often behave irrationally. Trying to interpret their behavior is a waste of your time and energy. Be careful not to let yourself get drawn into their negative thought processes.
Surround yourself with positive people
Create a network of positive friends and business contacts who support you and can give you advice when you begin to feel you can't control your emotions any longer.
Be positive
The best way to show negative people their attitude is wrong is by radiating your happiness and well being. You just might inspire them to change, or at least convince them to stay away from you.
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